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DESCRIBE YOUR IDEAL MAN FOR 2009
I hear ladies saying that their man needs a job. I hear them saying they want a man with no baby mamas, a man that doesn't LIVE with their mama, a man that has his own transportation and a man with goals. Its 2009 ladies, what is the standard for a good man these days? What is your blueprint of a good man?
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Permalink Reply by Cee Cee on -
A good man...A man that knows what he wants in life, a go getter, someone with goals someone with a bright future. A good man...honest, loyal, real....yes he has to have a job and if he dont he better be in school full time with no kids...A good man to me is a man of GOD....little things like he gotta be sexy with the best gear doesnt make the man so it doesnt mean much to me
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Permalink Reply by Sally Iriri on
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my ideal man 2009 is dark skinned,well groomed hands and feet,laid back with a casual swagg,go getter,drama free,well paid,honest and loyal,puts no one above me,always there when i need him...God fearing and faithful plus he gotta be sexy!
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Permalink Reply by Kellie+H on -
GOOD+JOB,+A+NICE+CAR,+THE+BEST+GEAR,+LOOK+GOOD+%2F+NICE+BODY,+AND+NO+KIDS+.+SOME+ONE+WHO+HAS+GOALS+IN+LIFE+AND+FAITHFUL+HA+HA+BUT+THATS+PROBLY+NOT+GOING+TO+HAPPEN+OR+I+WOULDNT+BE+SINGLE+NO+
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Permalink Reply by Jeseé-Cathline Nichols on -
hmmmmm, i really think that for me its more than just about having a car and a job or a house. its more about whats in the mind and heart for me. i want a man that looks at life as a pile of clay. he knows that life is what you make it and when you make a mistake just knead it out and start over, learning from his mistakes. he has to be someone that "does" instead of "talking about doing". says what he means and means what he says. knows who he is and never lets someone bring him down. walks with confidence and talks with tenacity. possesses a manliness that will assure his wife of her safety with him. speaks for those who can't. work towards a career not at a job. knows that God is in control of all things. understands the value and strength of his words and the fragilty of a woman's heart. i think a good man will have a car, house and a job even if he doesnt now he will if he's the kind of man that wants to live a life of purpose because he knows that a good man takes care of his own. he's strong enough for the whole world to be on his shoulders but is sensitive enough to let a woman into his heart.
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Permalink Reply by Sheena4cmb@hotmail.com on -
Clean,Fresh,Handsome, Tall, Smart, may have some flaws we all do, a legal Job. Respects me and his mama believes in Jesus works for Jesus does work for community passionate about family morals all that good stuff...
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Permalink Reply by stacy elliott on -
CHECK THIS OUT RAE RAE:
JOB: YES, MORE APPROPRIATELY CALLED A CAREER
TRANSPO: YES, THAT WOULD BE NICE
PLACE TO LIVE: YES
BABY MAMA: GET REAL, I AM A WOMAN AND YOU CANT FIND A GIRL WITH NO BABY-DADDY EITHER
LIFE GOALS: OF COURSE, IN 20+ YEARS, WE DON'T WANT YOU TO BE IN THE SAME POSITION AS WHEN WE MET (VICE VERSA), EVEN JAY, TRUMP, GATES STILL HAVE GOALS TO COMPLETE
THAT COMPLETES YOUR LIST, HERE'S WHAT YOU FORGOT:
HEART
CAJONES (BALLS)
BRAIN
COMPASSION
RESPECT
MORALS
ETHICS
COMMON SENSE (THIS IS NOT THE SAME THING AS BRAINS)
A WOMAN WANTS TO BE ABLE TO FEEL INDEPENDENT, AND STILL HAVE THAT ROCK TO LEAN ON. ABLE TO LAUGH, CRY AND TRIP IN OUR PRETTY HEALS WITHOUT FEELING SELF-CONSCIOUS.
ALRIGHT PLAYA,
PEACE....
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Permalink Reply by Linda Phillips on
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My responce to this a man that wants to be himsself,strong in his self and happy with what he chooses to do in the real things that he wants to do.If I start talking about what my idea of a man is ,then I wont be allowing that person to be who he want tobe. Men are not meal tickets ,so I expect him to be him. I would just about like everything about him because people change with time to expect someone to be what I want would make things hard.It would have to be what I can do and expect from myself going into it.men most men are already alot of what we want, so it depend on what women are looking for.Some one who is willing to go the distance with me all the way no matter what it take as long as we endure together,we are in it together are we not.sorry I cant say what people want to hear just to be popular.I feel men should be honored for who they are first.Thats whythey have mothers so they dont have to feel we are reraising them,instead standing with them,
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Permalink Reply by Tonya Dotson on -
All men are good...Its what u accept from him, motivate him to do, and encourage him to accomplish. All ladies say what we want but in reality we never wait and learn what we are involving ourselves in. In 2010, be ready yourself for that GOOD man by having your career, taking care of your kids without the sugar daddies(dope boys), and having your own place, car and goals. Then when a king comes your way u can recognize it whether if he has lost his determination and is complacent or if he has a crazy baby momma that knows she lost a good man a just want to keep him miserable. If we step back and look at ourselves as close as we look at our men, we might recognize royalty the next time it passes.BFQ
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